Soul Mates & Shared Evolution

I've read the Pluto volume 2 book and the section on Soul Mates & Karma Mates, and I have been deeply sitting with the question around Soul Mates and Evolution Relative to the Composite Chart.

As I understand JWG says that Soul Mates are different then Karma Mates because they share a spiritual purpose of evolution. I'm trying to understand this relative to the Composite chart and in comparison to what is often referred to Karma Mates/Soul Mate dynamics.

If the Composite chart reflects Soul dynamics that the souls shared in past lifetimes, that in this lifetime they are coming together again to resolve, does this imply that both Souls must choose to cooperate with the Evolutionary intention in order to resolve the dynamics? or is it possible the one of the Souls desire to cooperate is enough to resolve the karmic dynamic in order to heal and not repeat the trauma again?

Where is the resolution of the dynamics reflected in the chart? In Pluto? the Nodes & the Moon?

For example, if one Soul in the past Abandoned or Rejected another Soul, and they come back together in this life time, the trauma of Abandonment & Rejection is repeated again in this life time until Both Souls come together in Choice and Connection or Can one Soul shift the dynamic even if the other is not willing to change or choose the healing path in the relationship?

Trying deeply to understand the Healing and Resolution in Relationships from the perspective of Karma Mates & Soul Mates with Free will, and open to any thoughts, reflections and resources that might be available to understand this more.

Many thanks,

Michelle

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Rad

Mar 10, 2023

Hi Michelle,

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First, it is essential to understand the two individual’s natal charts, then how those two people have or do interact relative to their individual Soul dynamics which is symbolized in the Synastry Charts between them, and finally the composite chart which symbolizes their relationship together as a couple wherein all the individual dynamics, Soul dynamics, manifest together in that relationship. In other words each individual has their own ongoing EA paradigm in their individual charts, the Synastry charts between them correlating how those individual EA paradigms interact with one another as individuals, and the Composite Chart correlating to the relationship they have created together in which those individual EA paradigm’s are fused together and serve as the basis of how the evolve together which is symbolized by combined Pluto, the North and South Nodes of the Moon, and the location of their planetary rulers by house, sign, and aspects to the other planets in the Composite Chart.

The karmic dynamics that exists between two Souls is reflected in the Synastry Charts between any two Souls. How those karmic dynamics become resolved together in reflected in the Composite Chart. Whatever those karmic dynamics are between two Souls requires in each Soul CHOICES MADE TOGETHER on how to resolve that karma in order to resolve it. If one of the Souls chooses not too then the other does then the repetition of that karma, and how to resolve it, will manifest again in another time or life in which that karma manifest in some way wherein the two Souls will create some kind of relationship in which that karma between them will manifest and be given the opportunity to be resolved, in some way, between them.

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Where is the resolution of the dynamics reflected in the chart? In Pluto? the Nodes & the Moon?

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Relative to Composite Charts it is reflected first in the natal position of Pluto, it’s polarity point, the South and North Nodes of the Lunar Nodes,and the location of their planetary rulers by house, sign, and aspects to other planets.

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See above.

God Bless, Rad

jordyn

Mar 13, 2023

Replying to

Michelle and Rad,

This is a great question, Michelle, thanks for posting it.

Rad, what about the karma of leaving a relationship and the relationship just getting exhausted? I have seen in a few composite charts where there is Pluto Uranus conjunct within them (looking at liberation from emotional and psychological structures within), one I am specifically thinking about has Pluto and Uranus in a new phase conjunction 3rd/Libra. It squared Mercury Sun in Capricorn/6th. This was two family members. There was quite a bit of difference in the evolutionary stages. There were many lifetimes of these two souls coming together but one finally stated their truth after hiding within these types of family systems for a long time, and it wasn't accepted by the other, so they walked away from that relationship (consensus vs spiritual beliefs/truths, sexuality, and aspirations). There was a square to Neptune in the 4th conjunct Venus in the 5th. Resolution being Virgo SN in the first.

In situations like that, and I know I am being very vague, but I believe JWG mentioned within karmic (karma mates) relationships one or the other or both can just finally say "ENOUGH". With the square to the nodes and the karmic dynamics at play within that relationship, it seems to me like part of the healing was when one of them mustered the courage to speak on their personal truths and became unattached to the outcome. To me this reflects healing this square. That soul who spoke up was able to liberate from codependency and walk their own path afterwards. I am sure in some way the other soul felt abandoned, but also, the client had stated that it felt "done". The parent totally checked out after, as well. I feel that client was also giving a supreme form of giving. "I am no longer willing to play this role in this family anymore, it only gets in the way of both of our growth".

So, my question I have is, in situations like that, does that promote the ending to the karma that has been set up for many lifetimes?

Sometimes in situations like this to me, a soul would need to walk on, especially if they realize karmically that there is a hinderance occurring by continuing to do what they had always done. Would this be something you see more in the Libra archetype?

I feel like Virgo would be a dynamic like that as well, just because of the need to exhaust the relational dynamics, especially if they were rooted in sadomasochism.

Or is karma destined to play out again just because one feels abandoned by the other?

Surely, karma can end, and it isn't always "happy go lucky", sometimes it just ends because it's exhausted and there is no need for the relationship to continue on.

To segway off of Michelle's post, here is another question I have since I was speaking to Karma Mates.... I am wanting to know the distinction in this..... two souls can be in the spiritual stages and come together rooted in spirituality and both be in the spiritual stages of evolution, that doesn't necessarily mean that they are "Soul Mates", they can still be "Karma Mates", correct?

I have a couple that I am thinking about who are both in the spiritual stages of evolution but they came to me after one leaving a spiritual community where there was a lot of distortions going on. They both have a desire to know God, and yet again I am being vague, but although they are both in the first stage of Spiritual, the relationship was started with entrapment and hidden motivations stemming from prior life dynamics (this is what I have observed). It is a long story that I am not going to go over on here. The bottom line is, both can be in the spiritual stages, but be Karma mates, would this be correct?

This feels truthful to me. Just because two people come together in the spiritual stages doesn't mean that they are "Soul Mates". That feels too generalized. If that was the case, then everyone in the spiritual stages who came together would be "soul mates". There are so many different factors to that and it is rare.

Goddess Bless,

Jordyn