Hi Rad,
I have a question I have been thinking about lately, it keeps popping up. In EA we talk about how relationships help us to evolve, but we also know that some relationships inevitably need to end for karmic reasons. I also know that we can meet the same souls over and over in different lifetimes because the karmic dynamics haven't been met or come to fruition.
Can you speak to karmic dynamics of endings and not beginnings?
I was reflecting on my own life after a client came to me. It made me think about the clients I have worked with and my own personal soul journey. There are some key relationships I have had that I feel like the necessity was for it to end in order for growth to continue to happen.
How do we know we don't have to come back to that same dynamic and soul again if we end it in the present lifetime?
I can give a personal example of what I feel is a definite karmic ending. I was in a relationship in my late teens and early 20's and it was extremely abusive, I almost lost my life several times to this relationship (recovering masochist here(: ). I'lll spare the details on the forum, but my point is I get why this ended and am grateful for it and my own personal growth from that situation, but what about other karmic dynamics and the need for the relationships to end?
I don't mean to move into another type of relationship whether it be friend, family, work.... I am wanting to know what are the mitigating factors that create karmic endings?
How do we see that in a chart?
Do you have an example you can share?
It can't always be doom and gloom in this department, so what about relationships that have just exhausted themselves?
What have you usually come across pertaining to this dynamic?
Please feel free to ask for clarification if I am not articulating this well.
Much Love and Gratitude,
Jordyn
Hi Jordyn,
Can you speak to karmic dynamics of endings and not beginnings? How do we know we don't have to come back to that same dynamic and soul again if we end it in the present lifetime?
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Relationships can of course reflect all kinds of reasons to end for karmic/ evolutionary reasons. Relationships can have all kinds of reasons or causes that lead to an ending with this or that person. In the end all such reasons or causes will be, are, rooted in the inner dynamics within any given Soul that have served as the determinants for creating this or that kind of relationship with other Souls.
For any relationship that the Soul has created to itself for its own evolutionary and karmic reasons to actually end it is essential that the Soul objectify and understand those inner dynamics that have created its evolutionary and karmic need for this or that kind of relationship in the first place.
Once understood then the Soul can accept its own responsibility in creating the types of relationships it has relative to the inner dynamics that are responsible for them. At that point the Soul can manifest an inner desire to be free of of those inner dynamics that leads to a knowing that the end of such relationships is at hand .
This is the underlying way for any Soul to understand how and why to end any relationship based on whatever the inner dynamics have been that has lead to the types of relationships formed with others that have been caused by those dynamics.
So, for example, If a Soul has been forming relationships with others that have been, are, masochistic in nature it is essential from an evolutionary/ karmic point of view that the Soul understands the inner causes of why they have become masochistic, accepts the inner responsibility for becoming masochistic because of those causes, and then through inner determination desires to be free from the inner dynamics that have been responsible for creating masochistic relationships because of those existing dynamics.
For example all Souls who have become/ are masochistic the root cause in all cases is guilt. Guilt that has either been learned from cultural/ societal/ religious beliefs, or natural guilt. This guilt is then linked with the need to atone for that guilt which in turn causes the masochism: I need pain, punishment, and crisis.
So, again, the evolutionary need in order to be free of this masochism, and the types of relationships that it will lead to and create, is to objectify it and to understand the dynamics that have created it in the first place. And then to desire to be free of it, and determining exactly how to do that. In this way an end within the Soul of these dynamics can take place which, in turn, will end the types of relationships the Soul attracts because of those dynamics.
At that point the Soul will still attract the types of people that reflect these old dynamics because, in essence, it is testing itself relative to the new realizations in order to make the changes, evolution, neccessary for itself. When that happens the Soul needs to know why it is doing this: testing itself. So when that happens to recognize it and then to say 'fuck no': I am not going there, doing that, anymore.
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I'lll spare the details on the forum, but my point is I get why this ended and am grateful for it and my own personal growth from that situation, but what about other karmic dynamics and the need for the relationships to end? I don't mean to move into another type of relationship whether it be friend, family, work.... I am wanting to know what are the mitigating factors that create karmic endings?
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See above.
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How do we see that in a chart?
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The EA astrologer has to have a total and comprehensive understanding of the EA paradigm in any given chart to understand the inner causes of whatever dynamics within the Soul that are responsible for creating the types of relationships that the Soul has been creating for itself, and then how to evolve beyond those dynamics.
The archetype of masochism for example in EA will always involve Virgo, Mercury, and/or the 6th house.
God Bless, Rad